Five Things that Make a Woman

Either Agreeable or Disagreeable to Men

Mātugāma Sutta

Saɱyutta Nikāya – Saḷāyatana Vagga – Mātugāma Saɱyutta

“Bhikkhus, when a woman possesses five factors she is extremely disagreeable to a man. What five?

1. She is not beautiful,
2. not wealthy,
3. not virtuous;
4. she is lethargic; and
5. she does not beget children.

When a woman possesses these five factors she is extremely disagreeable to a man. “

“Bhikkhus, when a woman possesses five factors she is extremely agreeable to a man. What five?

1. She is beautiful,
2. wealthy,
3. virtuous;
4. she is clever and industrious; and
5. she begets children.

When a woman possesses these five factors she is extremely agreeable to a man.”

From the book : ‘The connected discourses of the Buddha’ (Bhikkhu Bodhi)